You know the scenario. You're watching Law and Order, someone dies, and they go to the relatives and ask them "Did your ____ have any enemies? Do you know who would have wanted him dead?"
The most common answer is "No, he/she loved everybody. No one would want to hurt him/her". Is it weird that I have a list of people who I think would hurt me? Have you ever thought about who might make your list of "This person doesn't like me AT ALL". Well, obviously I have. I'll make sure to leave the list with my wife. Let's not go too far with this, I don't think they would want to harm me to the point of death, but I'm sure if something happened they wouldn't come to the funeral or be sending flowers if you know what I mean.
To end this post on a positive note, if you have a grudge against someone, let it go. I'll try.
Posted by Ben Arkell